If I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but do not have love, I have become a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal.
1 Corinthians 13:1
Where there is no love there is noise. We were made for love from love. God is love (1 John 4:16) and eternal life is about knowing God who is love (John 17:3). We were made from love and for love and Jesus brings us the love God has always had for us. Without love, we get loud, either in our words or our walk. It just happens but it doesn’t have to happen to us because we are loved.